My mom is 3 inches shorter than me and 30 pounds lighter. She constantly talks of how when she was pregnant, she was 90 pounds. She doesn’t realize this has given both of her daughters eating disorders. She doesn’t understand when I say I want a “slim” dress, without a wide waist. She doesn’t understand why I wear shapewear to school and suck in at the beach. This is toxic parenting, and it needs to stop.